From the outside looking in, you can never understand it; from the inside looking out, you can never explain it. <3
For the anon that asked about graduate recruitment, some sororities are allowed to take grad students, but there are more that don’t. It will automatically eliminate houses, and that’s if your university even allows grad students to rush. The best way to find out is to contact the Greek Life office and ask about their policy on that and how many houses can take grad students. Good luck!